Valuing the Challenged
An
Unplanned Journey by Naval Pant
---Reviewed by Deepak Sharma
Publishers: Parmahansa Yoganand Society for Special Unfolding and Moulding (PYSSUM - a non-profit organization working for the Individuals with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities)
Year of publication: 2023
ISBN: 978- 81- 964533- 0- 5
Deepak Sharma |
The author, a keen follower of Sri Sri
Paramahansa Yogananda, is the Founder- Director of PYSSUM (Paramahamsa Yoganand
Society for Special Unfolding and Moulding), Lucknow, which was co- founded by
his wife Prof. Ranu Uniyal in the year 2005. He is also a Member of Expert
Panel for Inclusive Education, State Shiksha Pariyojna, UP.
This book, he says, is 'at once an
autobiographical account, a memoir of the institution we built, a chronicle of
the heroic struggles of young children, and some of the learnings from serving
in the field of special needs education.'
The book opens with the literary piece, a
short story, called 'A Gift from God's Hall of Angels'.
About a child (with special needs) -- 'The Boy'--
who is being drawn closer to his parents when his ‘Dad' makes up a 'Palace of
Joy' and a 'Hall of Angels’. The 'Hall' holds Angels like The Boy in need of
special attention and care and in the 'Palace' live many men and women, from
among whom, God allows The Boy to choose his own parents who will fulfil his
wish for a place of learning that was 'special'. The Boy chooses these very
distinctive Mom and Dad who are now his parents. The Dad also makes up a
magical 'Portal of the Parents' lap' where stand The Boy ' s chosen Mom and Dad
right in front to receive The Boy who runs the fastest among the Angels to
reach them as God opens the 'Hall' into the 'Portal'.
In
view of this half mystical and half factual account, The Boy gains confidence
as the nectar of flowing love envelopes him and his parents with him accepting
himself as one of the Angels from God's Hall.
Highly creative and emotional in spirit,
the story sets the tone for the next second and third chapters.
The second one deals with the shock and
despondency that the Pants went through when they spot their son, Moko,
experiencing developmental delays, both physically and intellectually, what
with one of the paediatricians declaring most insensitively, ' Your son could
be a vegetable all his life', flouting the very spirit of the Hippocratic Oath.
Ensues one more year of frustration with
exploratory but inadequate treatment of Moko succeeded by his epileptic
seizure. This takes them to the right doctor whose systematic and effective
medication for the next three years helped Moko gain weight and his physical
health gets improved and he starts growing, though slowly.
The third chapter recounts how Moko comes
into his own moving from one stage of development to another, step by step.
From attending two schools-- 'Friendship’,
a special school in the mornings and 'The Speech Development ' in the
afternoons, having to change his school uniform enroute from one school to the
next.
Until at The Speech Development School, a
teacher in the habit of hitting the children with cane had also hit Moko
causing his head to bleed.
Naturally, he is never sent to this
afternoon school after this.
The next phase of his schooling begins at
Pyssum Day Care Centre, which has been set up by that time and is brimming with
new children.
There his speech gets better with daily
coaching and his body movements too respond better with physiotherapy. He
develops a new interest in musical instruments and sports.
By the time he reaches his teens he gets
selected for the Special Olympic National Competitions in New Delhi and wins a bronze
medal in the race and a Silver one in the Short- Put along with Shreya of
PYSSUM itself who has also won Gold in the Girls ' Race.
Over the years Moko gains new skills as he
matures and graduates to become a vocational trainee at the age of 23 at the
PYSSUM Vocational Training & Rehabilitation Centre (PVTRC) where job
skills, arts and crafts are taught to Special needs people.
This is a remarkable record indeed where
the parents as well as the special son show indomitable spirit and triumph.
It is mandatory here to quote the last
paragraph of this chapter:
“Ranu looks at me with a knowing smile
sometimes, as if to say, ‘our son, a' could be a vegetable' has turned out to
be a winner in his own right.’ I smile back, for I know that look.”
In the next few chapters, Dr Pant writes
about the 'exceptional' learners, the 'heroic' teachers and the 'incredible'
staff at PYSSUM. About the achievements and successes of PYSSUM.
It is indeed heartening to read about
Manas, Tanu, Disha, Puja, Srikant and Yogesh making good progress at PYSSUM.
Manas, fondly called, Bal- Hanuman, got
transformed into a well- adjusted adult, specially when in the initial year of
his PYSSUM his attention- seeking repertoire had been spitting, hitting and
disappearing. But the training of constructive play, drawing and craft and the
phrase, 'I love you' at PYSSUM had worked wonders with him and he had made
rapid progress in his social intelligence and behaviour.
Again there is Tanu, whom Dr.Pant
addresses as 'Hi Princess, Bolti kyon nahin?', who, at age 7,the year she had
joined PYSSUM had reminded him of the 7- year old Helen Keller whose teacher
and life- long companion, Anne Sullivan, had joined her just at the same age.
Tanu was totally passive, made no effort to move, learn, communicate and did
not even talk or walk.
But within the next three years she was
coaxed into showing a new willingness to work hard to achieve the goals set by
her educators and therapists.
And even walk and say, Mero naam Tanu Hai.
We also learn about Puja and Disha, the
daughters of a staffer who could not afford to send them to a school regularly
and who had been accepted into PYSSUM due to the formulation of a policy of
admitting socially challenged but mentally active children.
Puja, the younger one had a better
grasping power and interest for academic learning than her sister Disha, who
enjoyed arts and crafts.
But unfortunately, their father died and
the mother stopped their training here.
Nonetheless they had picked up learning
here to their advantage.
Srikant's case was different though. He
was their first PYSSUM angel with autism and had been helped to make good
progress both physically and emotionally and even chant Paramahansa Yoganand's chant,
“Joy, joy, joy, joy; Ever- new Joy, joy" during his two and a half years spent
here but unfortunately was not sent back by his father after the summer
vacation.
With the result he remains an unsettled
adult with undiagnosed autism due to his father being indifferent towards the
needs of his own child. Which is sad indeed.
Then there is Yogesh, the boy, Dr Pant
happened to observe at a wedding jumping continuously in the crowd. He later
found out that a kind young man Amoolya, had found Yogesh sleeping in a garbage
can in his village and had brought him to Lucknow where his parents lived and
accepted him as part of their family. They had taken him to a child specialist
too and even sent him to a special school with no positive results. On having
learnt this about Yogesh from Amoolya he offered to admit him in PYSSUM.
And now having spent almost 15 years there
he performs on stage during cultural programs at school and participates in
sports competitions, including the Special Olympics.
Dr Pant writes about Imtiaz too very
fondly who was their first special needs adult with autism.
Imtiaz had been brought to PYSSUM by his
father in 2007.
He had shown great interest in the world
map and had good general knowledge too and the craft activities too had
captured his imagination and to encourage him he was also given charge of Fancy
Envelopes production which he had taken up most earnestly n competently.
He had continued working for PYSSUM until the end of 2018 when he fell severely
ill and most unfortunately passed away in 2019.
We also learn about Abdullah who was
another special-needs adult, whom his mother had brought to PYSSUM and where he
was transformed first from a listless 19-year-old teen with Intellectual and
Developmental Disability into their first vocational trainee to eventually work
as a classroom assistant for children in the inclusive education system.
We also have Tanya who spoke about her
passing away to Moko a day after she had died. She had Down Syndrome whom
PYSSUM had trained to become an active member of their Hospitality group. Her
weekly visits to the Lucknow Meditation Centre of YSS with her parents had brought her close to Moko, who would
also accompany his parents to visit the center. The Sunday school and
children’s joint satsanga activities had further helped both Tanya n
Moko become good friends and she would also call him on the telephone for a
chat, even when after a year she had stopped going to PYSSUM as her family had
moved to a new home which was far away.
Also from Chandigarh, when her parents had
taken her with them to attend a wedding.
But only for a few weeks as she had had to
leave the world and her fond memories behind her.
Dr. Pant also writes about Rohan who had
autism and was brought to PYSSUM by his parents.
Strangely enough, Rohan had been a very
good friend of Moko even before Dr. Pant had met him here.
Rohan and Moko had had a common friend in
a dog, whom they had fondly given the name, Brownie. And both the boys used to
arrange meals for Brownie, who was not being fed well by his family until one
day he was killed by some one in their building. To the great dismay of the two
friends.
And soon enough, Rohan too stopped coming
to Moko as his family had shifted house.
The book is a powerful recall of the
circumstances that prompted Dr.Pant to undertake this ‘unplanned journey’ and
to go through it most rewardingly and successfully. And share it with his readers
so cogently. With an amazing skill of narration and story-telling. We marvel at
his use of different kinds of language interchangeably depending on what he
wants to convey. In his literary piece, the short story and in his narration of
the cases of his exceptional Angels his language is very expressive and he evokes
specific and concrete images with such details that we can visualize, most
vividly, each exceptional case that he writes about. His
language is appropriately formal when he writes about the doctors, visitors and
neighbours whom he meets at different occasions.
And his language assumes an intimate tone
when he mentions his wife, son and friends.
When it comes to various references to his
colleagues, specially that to Dr.Anju Misra(Director, Education and Training at
PYSSUM) that he makes in the book, he
uses an informative style mingling it with regard and approbation.
Dr. Pant also includes a thought-provoking
and captivating chapter in his book, devoted to the quality of empathy and
calls it a healing balm for a suffering world.
He believes his immersion in PYSSUM 's
humanitarian work has changed him completely and he finds every day to be a day
of new learnings and expanded horizons. Which speaks of his humility and broad
vision.
At one place, Dr. Pant quotes Helen
Keller:
“The world is not moved only by the mighty
shoves of the heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each
honest worker."
The book also carries heart-warming pictures
of various activities carried out at PYSSUM and by PYSSUM members elsewhere
which illustrate how the institution's staff, teachers, students and parents
engage themselves in acts of service, learning and human transformation.
Truly the book elicits an overwhelming
admiration for both Dr. Pant and his wife, Dr. Ranu Uniyal for their
indefatigable spirit and their success story.
Dr. Ranu Uniyal's short poems
characterizing a few PYSSUM Angels published at the back page add to its charm.
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